只闻花香，不谈悲喜

序：做一个淡淡的女子第一章悲也罢，喜也罢，都是灵魂散发的香气Joy and sorrow is the fragrance of your soul如果你心头的火光不灭，谁还能浇熄你的梦想呢？No one can destroy your dreams彼此点头，彼此微笑，坚韧地生活Nod and smile to each other那是一棵壮丽的玫瑰树The beautiful rose tree乘上清风，如向死而生的鸟儿一样Ride the wind， such as the Nirvana bird亲爱的！擦干你的眼泪Dear， dry your tears!哪怕全世界都不肯对你笑，你也要露一个笑容给自己Give yourself a smile眼泪不能洗涤，眼泪能燃烧Burn your tears如果我能重新开始一生If I can start a new life任霜寒风吹，内心绝不伤悲Even when the cold wind in my body， I do not feel sad生如夏花，死于秋叶，还在乎拥有什么Let life be beautiful like flowers， and death like leaves如风般自由，似云朵般沉静Free like wind，calm like cloud让懂的人懂，让不懂的人不懂To understand or don't understand苦难越沉重，灵魂越高贵The more suffering， the more noble第二章阳光再暖一点，让日子再慢一点Let the sun warmer， let time slower好日子，要停下来细细品尝Stop to enjoy the beautiful life抬头看云，低头成长Raised your head to look at the clouds， lower the head to grow屋子简陋，但足够我仰望碧空The house is simple， but enough to look up to the sky愿你是那灵魂有香气的女子May you be the woman with beautiful soul猫眼睛里的永恒The eternity in the cat's eyes孤独的一个人，正生活在遥远的异乡Live alone in a foreign land有的东西，我们越是追，却离我们越远Something more is sought， the more distant角落里的阳光，反而更暖人The sun of the corner is warmer老去，是一种优雅的力量Old is a kind of elegant心向暖秋，柔韧绽放Soft heart blossom in warm autumn你看你在水中的倒影，有多么美！How beautiful your reflection in the water is ！读书是一种享受Reading is a kind of enjoyment人生是舞台，上演着多彩的戏A colorful drama is played on the stage of life窗外的世界，你不懂You don't understand the world outside我是天空里的一片云第三章我永远面带微笑，尽管我内伤很重Although I was badly hurt，I always smile只有当你驶入自己的港口，你才能停止下来Stop only in their own ports假如生活欺骗了你If by life you were deceived生活从来不曾干燥Life never dry黎明之光，终将驱散你受过的苦The light of dawn will drive away your suffering生活予你苦难，而你要报以笑脸Smile back to the suffering of life如果你失去一个世界If you lose the world每一座沙丘，我们总感到难以跨越Each dune， we all feel difficult to cross飞出这圈子Fly out of the circle心向自由，高贵而生Have a noble heart longing for freedom美终究是美，即使是在它凋谢的时候Fall is also beautiful我的心曾悲伤七次My heart was sad seven times请记得，给灵魂安个家Prepare a home for the soul生命中的一切都该由心做主Everything in life is determined by the heart我们像摇摆于忧愁与欢乐之间的一架天平We are like a balance between sorrow and joy第四章不急不躁，静候下一季的姹紫嫣红Waiting for the next season unrushed女子如水般柔软Woman is soft like water生命深处，我心淡然My heart is peaceful in my life漫游在自然中，一切都那么安静Everything in nature is so quiet就让路途当中出现阻塞吧，让它出现好了!A tough life is a beautiful life守一颗宁静淡然的心Keep a quiet heart生命何其蜿蜒，但也要耐心地走完Life is winding， but you have to be patient即使是一棵孤独的树，骨子里依然是对春天的向往Even if it is a lonely tree， the heart is longing for the spring安静中体会生命的盛大Enjoy the grand life quietly怀抱春天，真实地绽放Embrace spring then bloom故乡的秋，说不出的怀恋Miss the autumn of my home不惊不怕，以爱活下去Live for love生命的过客，记忆的常客A passer-by in your life五月里，这生命的律动The rhythm of life in may打开心窗，总能触摸到阳光Open the window to your heart， and touch the sun都是旅人，不带走什么We are travelers taking nothing第五章在温柔中不慌不忙地坚强There is adamancy in tenderness不虚荣、不炫耀，绚丽绽放于天空下Never show or glitter满含爱的心，如三月暖风般醉人Heart full of love is like the March air如桂花一般的女子，从不刻意躲避尘世喧哗Women like a flower never escape from the world你是人间的四月天You are the April days in the world你以为我刀枪不入，我以为你百毒不侵You think I'm strong， I think you are brave要从远处看生活Look at life from a distance孤独之于你我，不过是成长的必经之路Loneliness is the only way which must be passed许你一个温暖的梦Promise a warm dream to you真正的高贵应该是优于过去的自己The true nobility is better than your past一片阳光A piece of the sun让自己的心像母亲一样温暖Let your heart warm like a mother只做一个我，不做第二个谁Be yourself流年带走红颜，它却带不走爱Time takes the beauty， but never love那只渴望自由的松鼠不知去向了The squirrel disappear without a trace给灵魂以自由，让寂寞无处可藏Let your soul free， farewell to loneliness世间曾有一个小丑The world had a clown人生必须透过黑暗，才能得见光明Through the darkness， we can see the light此心便是，世间最暖的光明The heart is the most warm light

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