“No，” I 43 . “You know，” Kurt said simply，“growth is not a(n) 44 process.” And that’s when it 45 me.I wasn’t doing anything 46 to make myself better.And at that moment，I made the 47 ：I will develop and follow a personal growth plan for my 48 . That night，I talked to my wife about my 49 with Kurt and what I had learned.I 50 her the workbook and tapes Kurt was selling.We 51 that Kurt wasn’t just trying to make a sale.He was offering a 52 for us to change our lives and achieve our dreams.