Don't wait for an apology.Many times the person who hurt you does not intend to apologize. They may have wanted to hurt you or they just don't see things the same way.________Keep in mind that forgiveness does not necessarily mean becoming friends again with the person who upset you.

Take the control away from your offender(冒犯者).Rethinking about your hurt gives power to the person who caused you pain.Instead of focusing on your wounded feelings,learn to look for the help,beauty and kindness around you.

________ If you understand your offender ,you may realize that he or she was acting out of unawareness, fear, and even love. You may want to write a letter to yourself from your offender's point of view.

Don't forget to forgive yourself.________ But it can rob you of your self-confidence if you don't do it.

A.Why should you forgive?

B.How could you start to forgive?

C.Recognize the benefits of forgiveness.

D.Try to see things from your offender's angle.

E.For some people,forgiving themselves is the biggest challenge.

F.To make your anger die away,try a simple stress-management technique.

G.If you wait for people to apologize, you could be waiting an awfully long time.

第四节：语法填空（每空1分）

We think that life in Chinese high school is a hard experience in which we have to survive mountains of homework and all kinds of exams. Yet would it be________(surprise) if I tell you that high school life in the US is almost as hard ________ it is in China?

In US high school, everything must ________(record) into your studying document(文件), including your grades, tests and final examinations. Failing ________(turn) in your homework on time will directly affect your grade for a certain course. Perhaps completely different from ________we used to think of the US high school students, they pay great attention to ________(they) study in order that they can get into a good university.