Forgiveness brings freedom, whereas revenge (报复) is neither sweet nor satisfying.
I have personal experience of this. I used to be very cynical about life and didn't forgive easily. At the time, I also struggled in every area of my life. Things just didn't seem to work out for me. It is as if everything that could go wrong, always went wrong. That was until somebody told me to take a look at my attitude. And when I forgave those who wronged me and changed my attitude, everything else changed. It didn't happen overnight. It took a while, but I could see and feel the difference.
Are things not working out in your life, despite you doing all the "right" things? Is it possible that you are holding "unforgiveness" in your heart? It is worth thinking about.
Introduction It is common that people find it difficult to forgive those 1 them. Myth of forgiveness To forgive is a sign of weakness. Truth of forgiveness To forgive is in fact a sign of 2 To forgive shows you have a generous heart, not that someone has done something good that is 3 your forgiveness.. The time it takes to forgive someone is decided by the 4 of the pain.
It is your action rather than words that really 5 . Reasons for forgiveness To hate requires much energy, thus 6 unnecessary stress on the body.
Forgiveness 7 you from bitterness and burden. Author's experience Everything seemed to go wrong until I was 8 of my own attitude towards things happening to me.
Everything changed in 9 to my changed attitude. Conclusion When you find everything going wrong 10 your effort, think about your attitude toward forgiveness.