C．different ways D．different situations

　　解析：根据文章最后一段内容可知，交流有三方面的特征：一是交流的不同风格；二是不同的方式；三是时间的选择和地点。故答案选B项。

　　答案：B

　　3．The key of a real communication is ________.

　　 A．proper timing B．various styles

　　 C．two－way exchange D．adults' attitude

　　解析：根据文章第二段．..Healthy communication-the kind that builds a strong two－way bridge-is crucial ...可知，真正交流的关键所在是交流双方的双向交流，而不是一言堂。

　　答案：C

　　4．As an adult，what you should do first is ________.

　　 A．to give children a chance to become a happy person

　　 B．to be a good listener

　　 C．to follow children's ideas

　　 D．to teach children strictly to follow your advice

　　解析：根据文章第二段最后一句话It gives your child a chance to become a happy，safe，healthy person，no matter what happens.可以推断出，在交流时首先要给孩子们一个表达自己感情的机会，让他们畅所欲言，这样才能因势利导，达到真正的情景交流，故答案选A项。

　　答案：A

　　B

　　To master a language one must be able to speak it understand it when it is spoken as well as to read and write it. These days more and more foreigners are coming to China and more and more Chinese are going abroad to work or study so that the spoken language is becoming more and more important.

　　 Speaking，of course can't go without listening. If you want to pronounce a word correctly，you must be able to hear it correctly. The sounds of the Chinese and English languages are not exactly the same. If you don't listen carefully you'll find it difficult or even impossible to understand the native speakers.

　　 Well what about writing? Like speaking it's used to exchange ideas. People generally use longer sentences in their writing. The important thing is to make your ideas clear in your head and then write them in clear language.

　　 Chinese students read far too slowly. If you read faster you understand better. If you read too slowly by the time you have reached the end of a page you have forgotten what the beginning is about. When you meet with new words don't look them up in the dictionary at once. Guess the meanings from the context. You may not guess quite correctly the first time but as the new words come up again and again in different contexts their meanings will become clearer and clearer. If you try to look up every word，you'll never finish a book.

　　 Students of a foreign language need a particular knowledge the knowledge of the life ，history and geography of the people whose language they're studying. They should study these subjects in the foreign language not only in translation. In this way one_can_kill_two_birds_with_one_stone:_he can learn the language and some knowledge of the foreign country at the same time.

　　5．In the first paragraph the writer told us ________.

A．how to speak English